Our Faculty and Staff

Ms. Amber Terry

Hello! I am the Director of First Steps. My husband Jon and I moved to Oconomowoc in 2004.  We have two children Isaiah who attends Martin Luther College in New Ulm, Minnesota  and Evelyn who attends Lakeside Lutheran High School in Lake Mills, Wisconsin. 

Background and experience: I have a degree in Child Development and over 20 years of experience in early childhood education. I have completed my WELS certification from Martin Luther College. I have a passion for working with children and their families.

About me: I love to be busy! I am a doer and planner. My top 5 strengths are Communication, Achiever, Includer, Woo, and Developer. I strive to live my life by example and take great pride in my experience, faith, and sharing that with the staff and families at First Steps.

As a family, we enjoy: Camping, bike rides, and taking trips to Door County together. 

Fun fact about me: I am the seventh child out of fifteen. My parents were foster parents for over 25 years and through that we cared for hundreds of children. 

My favorite bible verse: Ephesians 2:8″ For it is by Grace you have been saved, through faith and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God.” 

This gift God has given to us all! I love having the opportunity to share that message with our staff, children and families!

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Email: aterry@smls.org

Ms. Megan Fury

Hello! I serve as the Assistant Director of First Steps. I am originally from Houston, TX but fell in love with Wisconsin and its four seasons when I began attending Luther Preparatory School for high school. I am the fourth of six children (3 boys and 3 girls), and we are sprawled all across the US from Wisconsin to Texas to Washington D.C.

Background and experience: I graduated from Martin Luther College in 2018 and received my bachelor’s degree in Early Childhood Education. Upon graduating, I served for a year as a Director Apprentice at a WELS center in Manhattan, KS.

About me: I am a lifelong learner! I love learning as I travel and experience new things, especially in the great outdoors. I feel like I never lost the enthusiasm to find out something new about God’s creation that I had as a young child. I love watching the fascination of little ones innocently learning about the world around them.

Fun fact about me: I have wanted to be a teacher since I was three years old.

My favorite bible passage: Matthew 6:34 “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

It’s a beautiful life, and it begins when we are just little. God is so good, and I am here to assist you with the beautiful trust God has given you to raise and nurture your child, your children. You don’t need to ever be alone — I am here to assist, all of us at First Steps are here to assist you, to serve you, to build up your child, and to encourage you along the way!

Email: mfury@smls.org

Ms. Trisha Altreuter

Greetings!  I am the PreK Teacher of First Steps.  My husband Kurt of 16 years and I live in the Watertown area where we built our house in 2001.  We have 2 daughters Haddie and Molly.  Our home church is Emmanuel in Famington.

Background and experience: I majored in Early Childhood Education from WCTC and have taught 4k since 1998. Jesus says, let all the little children learn. I love experiencing the world of 3 and 4 year olds and embellishing on their giant personalities. I hold being a teacher very dear to my heart and find teaching to be one of life’s greatest gifts from our Savior!

As a family we enjoy: Wildlife, DIY projects, gardening, cooking, mornings/evenings on our back porch, and 4H of Jefferson county.

Fun fact about me: I’m a farm girl at heart.  I grew up on a dairy farm and now enjoy sharing responsibilities with Kurt, Haddie and Molly on our small hobby farm.

My favorite bible verse: Psalms 105:1  “O give thanks unto the lord; call upon his name: make known his deeds among the people.”

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Young 3’s Teacher at First Steps.

Ms. Meghan Splinter

Hello! I am the 2 Year Teacher at First Steps. I attended St. Matthew’s School, graduated in 2018 from Lakeside Lutheran High School, and currently pursuing a degree in Early Childhood Education from Waukesha County Technical College.

Background and Experience: I was a Summer Fun Day Camp teacher for 2 years at St. Matthew’s old campus.  I have been working at First Steps since it opened in 2018.  I really enjoy being with children and watching them learn and grow in their faith.

About me:  I enjoy spending time with my family and friends, being outdoors, raising sheep and playing softball in the summer.  I also enjoy coaching the St. Matthew’s girls B-Team basketball.

Fun Fact: I raise and show sheep throughout the year.

My favorite bible verse: Philippians 4:13 ” I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.” 

Coming Soon…

Toddler Co-Lead Spiritual Teacher of First Steps.

Ms. Karen Skodak

Hello! I am the Toddler Co-Lead Academic Teacher at First Steps! My husband Jason and I moved to Wisconsin in August of 2020. We met in 2011 while doing volunteer ministry work in Kentucky and have been blessed to live and work in a variety of places since then including Taiwan, California, Colorado, Arizona, West Virginia, Michigan, and Texas. We love the beauty of the lakes and seasons here in Oconomowoc!

Background and experience : I received my Bachelor’s Degree from Liberty University in 2009 with emphases in ministry and psychology, including child development courses. I have been blessed to serve in various positions and Christian schools around the country, gleaning precious experiences, skills, ideas, and inspiration from each one. Toddlers are my favorite age group, and I love guiding and seeing them learn through exciting, stimulating activities. Dancing, singing, and reading with children are moments I treasure!

I enjoy: Reading Christian fiction and non-fiction, church activities, walking/hiking, and travel.

Fun fact about me: I have been to 5 of the 7 continents for missions work in countries including Mexico, Guatemala, Venezuela, Uganda, and Taiwan. I was just in Europe for airport layovers, but I guess it still counts as being there ;).

My favorite Bible verse: 1 John 4:10 “This is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.”

Ms. Kristal Widmar

Hi! I am the Infant Room  Teacher at First Steps.  My husband, Justin, and I moved to Oconomowoc in 2009 when we were expecting our first son. We wanted to be closer to family since I grew up here and actually went to St. Matthew’s for grade school. We now have 4 children. Jake and Luke go to St. Matthew’s and our twins Noelle and Zach join me at First Steps

Background and Experience: I started working as an assistant teacher here at First Steps in September of 2020, and I’ve worked mostly in the 2 year old room. My older boys went through 4 years of onsite child care at my previous job. That experience combined with everything I’ve learned here so far, has given me a lot of ideas to use in the classroom. It’s great seeing the children learn new skills and interact with their friends, but I love that here we also get to help them grow spiritually!

I enjoy: Running (I’ve done 3 ½ marathons), biking, reading, hiking, and spending time with family and friends

Fun fact about me: Before First Steps, I worked for 16 years in the buying office of a major retailer in various roles and departments. Some of the categories I bought were men’s ties, junior’s clothing, toys during the Frozen craze, and girl’s accessories and pajamas. If you bought matching family jammies in the past few years, I may have picked them out!

My favorite Bible verse: Ephesians 2:8-9 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith, and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God, not by works, so that no one can boast.

Ms. Heather Bigelow

Hi! I am the lead teacher for the Nursery room at First Steps.  My husband, Phil, and I moved to Oconomowoc in 2019 when he accepted a call to be the outreach pastor here at St. Matthew’s.  We have three boys, Isaiah, Elijah and Caleb and they are all students here at St. Matthew’s.  Eli and Caleb are twins, not identical, but most people still have trouble telling them apart. 🙂

Background and Experience: I have a bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education (K-8) and Early Childhood Education with a Music minor from Martin Luther College. I worked 4 summers at a childcare center during college and taught preschool for a year before being a stay-at-home mom.  Recently I started working again as a teaching assistant before moving to Oconomowoc in 2019 and joining First Steps.

I enjoy: Walking, reading, camping, and music (playing piano, flute and singing)

Fun fact about me:  I have moved 6 times and lived in 3 different states (Wisconsin, Illinois, Michigan) since I married Phil back in 2003.  

My favorite Bible verse: Isaiah 41:10 “So do not fear for I am with you; do not be dismayed for I am your God.  I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

Ms. Caroline Gates

Hi, I am the lead School Age After School Care teacher and also one of the many assisting teachers for First Steps. I currently reside in Waukesha and attend Christ Lutheran in Pewaukee where I am an active member of the our alter flower committee.

Background and experience: I received my state certification from WCTC for early childhood.  I have over 13 years experience working in early childhood.

I enjoy: When I’m not with children, I enjoy going to the movies and spending time with my family and friends.

Fun fact about me: For my 31st birthday, I was able to take my dream vacation and spend a week in London, England.  My favorite spot was the Lego store.

Favorite Bible Verse:  John 10:14-15 “I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me – just as the father knows me and I know the Father – and I lay down my life for the sheep.”